Sunday 24 April 2011

The struggle of a father .....

Can not said by A Father

Typically, for a girl of full age, who was working, who joined her husband wander outside the city or abroad, who were at school or college away from her parents .. will often feel very missed by his mother.

So what about DAD?

Maybe because she is more often called to see you doing every day, but do you know, if it turns out DAD was the one who reminds mother to call you?

Maybe once when you're little, my mother was the one who more often take you tell or berdongeng, but you know that after Father's work and with FATHER tired face always asked my mother about it going and what do you do all day?

By the time you are still a little girl .. DAD usually taught her little daughter to ride a bike. And can pick up after DAD, DAD will release the auxiliary wheel in your bike ...

Then Mother said: "Not yet Dad, do not be removed once the wheels help him"

Mother was afraid last fall wounded sweet daughter ....

But realize you?

That DAD for sure will let you, look at you, and take care of pedaling carefully because she knows her little girl SURE CAN.

When you cry whine request new dolls or toys, she looked at you with pity. But Dad would say emphatically: "Can we buy it later, but not now"

Did you know, do it because DAD DAD did not want you to be a spoiled child with all the demands which can always be met?

When you're a cold, FATHER who was too afraid to yell sometimes a little by saying: "Already in the say! You do not drink cold water!".

Unlike the mother who observe and advise you gently. Know when it is really worrying DAD doin.

When you've got teenagers .... You start demanding the DAD to be able to license out the night, and the DAD be firm and say: "Not allowed!".
Did you know that Dad did that to take care of you? Due to the DAD, you are something very - very unusual precious ..

After that you're mad at DAD, and entered the room, slamming the door ... And who comes knocking doors and persuade you to not upset the mother ....

Did you know that when it DAD closed his eyes and holding within his inner turmoil, that the DAD was eager to follow your wishes, but again he MUST take care of you?

When when a guy started to call you often, or even come to the house to see you, Dad would put the world's coolest face .... :

DAD eavesdropping or peeping occasionally while you are chatting together in the living room ..

You realize, if liver DAD feel jealous?

When you begin to be more credible, and DAD slightly loosen the rules to leave the house for you, you will be forced to violate at night.

So who do DAD is sitting in the living room, and waiting to go home with a heart that is very worrying ... and after feeling worried that a protracted ... when she saw her little girl came home late at night hearts will harden and DAD DAD memarahimu .. .

You realize, that this was because it was feared that the DAD is coming soon? "That little girl will soon leave DAD"

After graduating from high school, DAD will be a little force you to become a doctor or engineer.

Know that all coercion is done DAD it alone - the eyes just thinking about your future later ...

But anyway DAD keep smiling and supporting you when your choice is not in accordance with the wishes DAD

When you become an adult girl .... and you have to go to college another town ... DAD should let you at the airport.

Did you know that the body was stiff to hold you DAD?

Dad just smiled as he gave this advice - that, and tell you to be careful. .

Whereas DAD want to cry like a mother and hug her tight.

A DAD to do is remove a little tear in the corner of his eyes, and patted the shoulder saying "Take care of yourself well yes dear".

DAD did it all for you STRONGER ... strong to go and become adults.

When you need money to finance half of the money and life, the first person is frowned DAD.

DAD must have tried hard to find a way so that their children can feel the same with other friends.

When the request is no longer simply asking a new doll, and DAD knew he could not give what you want ...

The words that come out of the mouth of DAD is: "No. .... No way!"

Whereas in the inner DAD, he was eager to say "Yes dear, I'll buy you a FATHER."

Did you know that at that moment felt DAD failed to make his son smile?

It's time you graduated as a scholar.

DAD was the first to stand up and applaud you.

DAD will smile with pride and satisfaction of seeing "a spoiled little girl who did not grow up successfully, and has become someone"

Until now, a friend Lelakimu come to the house and asked for permission to DAD to take you from him.

DAD will be very careful about giving permission ..

Because DAD know .....

That man is what will replace his position later.

And finally .... When DAD saw you sitting on the bridal dais Stage
with one man who in the think of it worthy of replacing it, DAD
smiled happily ....

Do you know, in a happy day it went backward stage DAD minute, and crying?

DAD crying because DAD is very happy, then pray .... DAD In a quiet prayer to God, DAD said: "O Lord my job was well done .... My little girl is cute and I love has become a beautiful woman .... Bahagiakanlah she and her husband ..."

After that DAD can only wait your arrival with his grandchildren who occasionally come to visit ...

With that hair and the white .... And body and arms are no longer strong enough to take care of you from danger ....

DAD has completed his job ....

DAD, Dad, Papa or our Abah ... Is the figure which should always look strong ... Even when he was not strong to not cry ...

He should see the firm even when he wants to pamper you. .

And he was the first person who always believes that "YOU CAN" in all things ..

Friday 22 April 2011

Mother Is Everything

Remember Mother Love You ...

One time a baby is ready to be born into the world. By revealed he asked the Lord, "The angels are here to say that tomorrow you are sending to the world, but how do I live there, I was so small and weak," said the baby.

God replied, "I have chosen an angel for you, he will keep you and love you."

"But in heaven, what I do is sing and laugh, it's enough for me to be happy." So says the baby.

God replied, "Your angel will sing and smile for you every day, and you will feel the warmth of her love and so much happier.

The baby was asked, "And how can I understand when people talk if I do not understand their language?".

Again and again the Lord answered, "Your angel will speak to you with the most beautiful language you've ever heard, and with great patience and attention he will teach you how to talk."

The bayipun asked back, "And what can I do when I want to talk to you?"

Once again the Lord answered, "Your angel will teach you how to pray."

The bayipun still not satisfied, he asked again, "I heard that on earth there are bad men, who will protect me?"

With patience Lord replied, "Your angel will protect you, with the stakes even his soul."

The bayipun still not satisfied and continued the question, "But I'll be sad not to see you again."

And the Lord replied, "Your angel will tell you about Me and will teach you how to get back to me, even though I'm always on your side."

At that moment heaven was so quiet, so the sound of the earth can be heard and the child in a low voice asked, "Lord, if I must go now, can you tell who the name of the angel at my house later?"

Lord replied, "You can call angel ... MOTHER ..."

Remember Mother Love You ...

For the mother who always moved to tears when I go ... ..

Remember friends, when your mother was willing to see you sleep without blankets, sleeping with two blankets wrapped yenyak body ..

Remember friends ...

when the mother's fingers gently stroking his head .. and remember

when water drips from the eyes of your mother's eyes when he saw you lying ill

Comrade .. jenguklah occasional mother who was always waiting for that first home kepulanganmu you were born,

friends .. sorry back to your mother who is always ri! ndu will your smile. Keep busy-busy world for a moment that always makes you forget to go home,

immediately jenguk memantimu mother who stood by the door until malampun more soluble.

Comrade .. do not let you lose, the moments that will you miss in the future. when the mother was dead ..

No more standing in the doorway to welcome us .. no more beautiful smile ... a sign of happiness. there was just an empty room no inhabitants, only the clothes hanging in her bedroom closet. Nothing else is preparing breakfast for you to eat, no longer are willing to take care of you until late at night when you are sick ... no more and there will be no more tears in every gust of breath mendo'akanmu.

Comrade .. come back soon. hug the mother who always love you ..

Kiss the feet of mother who always miss you and give the best in the end.

Comrade berdo'alah for health and taste the embrace of love and affection do not let you regret in the future back to the mother who always love you ..

Remember all - love and affection ...

Mother .. I'm sorry to any time will not be rewarded ...

Thursday 21 April 2011

Cara Minta Maaf Kalau Ketahuan Berselingkuh

Kawan-kawan yang suka selingkuh hahah.. soriii bos kalau aku langsung main hakim sendiri gini aja klo yang gak suka ya maaf tapi klo kawan-kawan benaran ada yang suka wah musti hati-hati dikurangin tuh kerjaannya masalahnya tidak baik merugikan diri sendiri dan semua pihak apa ku omong ini ngerti aja kah kawan hahah... ini aku bagi TIPS buat kawan-kawan semua semoga bermanfaat asal jangan diulang-ulang yang namanya selingkuh bisa tau sendri akibatnya...

1. Katakan Alasan Kenapa Anda Selingkuh
Ini hal pertama yang paling penting saat pasangan mengetahui Anda berselingkuh. Anda harus mengatakan alasan sejujur-jujurnya kenapa berselingkuh. Apakah karena persoalan emosional atau fisik? Jika tidak jujur, jangan harap Anda bisa menerima pemberian maafnya.

2. Ubah Cara Pandang
Jika alasan Anda selingkuh hanya karena godaan fisik semata, segera perbaiki cara pandang Anda dalam berhubungan. Sebagian orang selingkuh karena hal-hal yang kurang mendasar, hanya ketertarikan seksual atau sekedar mencari tantangan.
Jika benar-benar ingin memperbaiki hubungan, berjanjilah dengan kesungguhan dan ketulusan hati kalau Anda tidak akan mengulanginya.

3. Ungkapkan dengan Tindakan
Ungkapkan kalau Anda benar-benar ingin dia kembali dengan tindakan. Misalnya memberi hadiah, kartu atau selalu berusaha menghubunginya untuk meminta maaf. Usaha yang gigih mungkin bisa meluluhkan hati dan membangun kepercayaannya kembali pada Anda.

4. Meminta Maaf dan Bertanggungjawab
Tatap matanya, dan katakan maaf dengan tulus. Tunjukkan kepada pasangan bahwa Anda sangat mengerti dengan konsekuensi yang telah Anda lakukan dan bisa mempertanggungjawabkannya. Katakan padanya bahwa Anda siap dengan komitmen baru dan jika mengulangi kesalahan yang sama, Anda rela kehilangan dia. © kaskus-lover.blogspot.com

5. Bicarakan Masa Depan
Bicarakan masa depan Anda dan pasangan. Katakan bahwa Anda selalu membayangkan masa depan dan sudah punya banyak rencana untuk anak dan kalian berdua. Buatlah si dia pecaya bahwa Anda ingin menghabiskan masa tua bersama, dan perselingkuhan itu adalah sebuah 'kecelakaan' yang mengerikan.

6. Jangan Balikkan Kesalahan Padanya
Jangan bersikeras membenarkan tindakan Anda berselingkuh. Hindari menyampaikan alasan bahwa Anda berselingkuh karena dia kurang perhatian atau tidak bisa membahagiakan Anda.

7. Bersabar
Memergoki pasangan berselingkuh adalah pukulan terberat sekaligus penghinaan besar baginya. Mungkin akan butuh waktu lama untuk membuatnya memaafkan Anda. Bersabar adalah satu-satunya jalan. Jika pasangan belum mau bertemu atau menghubungi Anda, jangan terburu-buru bereaksi. Pemberian maaf memerlukan waktu yang tidak sebentar.

8. Tambah Momen Romantis
Banyak kasus perselingkuhan disebabkan hubungan yang kurang romantis. Saat pasangan sudah mulai menerima Anda kembali, coba sediakan waktu untuk lebih banyak habiskan waktu bersama.

9. Turuti Permintaannya
Dia setuju untuk menerima Anda kembali, tapi dengan beberapa syarat. Mungkin pasangan Anda akan lebih protektif dengan memonitor kemana dan dengan siapa Anda pergi untuk berjaga-jaga agar tidak 'kecolongan' lagi. Mungkin juga, dia akan
meminta nomor telepon keluarga atau teman Anda untuk menanyakan informasi tentang kegiatan Anda selama tidak bersamanya. Anda mungkin akan sedikit terganggu, tapi jika hal tersebut bisa membangun kembali kepercayaannya, ada baiknya jika Anda menurutinya.

sumber kaskus lover....

Tuesday 19 April 2011

Kisah Si Bocah Yatim Piatu

Ada seorang laki-laki masuk ke masjid di luar shalat fardhu. Ia menemukan seorang anak kecil yang berumur 10 tahun sedang melakukan shalat sunnah degan khusyu’. Kemudian lelaki tu menunggu anak kecil menyelesaikan shalatnya. Setelah itu ia mendatanginya dan mengucapkan salam, lalu bertanya: ” Wahai anak, kamu putra siapa?”. Anak itu hanya menundukkan kepalanya dan meneteskan air mata. Lalu ia mengangkat kepalanya dan berkata: “Wahai paman, saya anak yatim piatu, tidak berbapak dan tidak memiliki ibu”.

Laki-laki itu tertegun dan muncul rasa kasihan. Ia berkata: “Apakah engkau mau ku angkat sebagai anak angkatku?”. Anak kecil tadi balik bertanya: “Apakah jika saya lapar engkau akan memberi saya makan ?”. Laki-laki itu lalu menjawab: “Ya”. Si anak bertanya lagi: “Apakah jika saya telanjang engkau akan memberi saya pakaian ?”. Laki-laki itu menjawab: “Iya”. Si anak bertanya lagi: “Apakah jika saya sakit engkau akan menyembuhkan saya ?”. Laki-laki itu menjawab: “Itu tidak mungkin”. Si kecil bertanya lagi: “Apakah jika saya mati engkau mampu menghidupkan saya lagi ?”. Laki-laki itu kembali menjawab: “Itu jelas tidak mungkin!”. Si kecil lalu berkata: “Wahai paman, kalau begitu tinggalkanlah saya sendiri dengan Tuhan Yang Menciptakan saya, Yang memberi saya petunjuk, Yang memberi saya makan dan minum, Yang menyembuhkan saya saat saya sakit, Yang mengampuni dosa saya di hari akhir”. Laki-laki itu lalu terdiam membisu, ia kagum terhadap jawaban anak kecil itu. Lalu ia pun meninggalkannya dan berkata: “Saya percaya Allah, barang siapa bertawakkal pada-Nya niscaya akan dicukupkan segala kebutuhannya”.

Monday 18 April 2011

trotoar jadi tracktor... kok bisa ????

duduk di trotoar BK (bontang kuala) ngingatin aku ma cerita lucu hahha... kayaknya seru nih kalau di ceritain enak juga ngeblog di tempat terbuka sambil liatin orang pacaran lewat-lewat didepan mata meskipun sedikit gak enak di temani nyamuk-nyamuk habis nyamuknya gak bisa dibilangi padahal klo bisa dibilangin kan enak juga nyuruh gangguin orang yang pacaran disana aja hahha....
okelah sekarang aku mulai cerita aja ceritanya gini sewaktu masi muda dulu ya waktu muda dulu wah kesannya sekarang aku dah tua nih hahah... okelah lanjutttt nah waktu itu hari minggu sore kita janjian pada mau ngumpul nih di BK tapi sebelum di BK aku ma teman-teman janjian ngumpul dulu di rumah temenku yang satu pasti pada bingung bacanya hahah ... nah setelah pada ngumpul kami berangkat nih ke BK tau-tau sampai di BK ada satu temen kami yang ketinggalan... nah dia sempat tuh nelpon aku kira-kira ngmongnya gini...
oya namanya yudi temenku yang tertinggal...

"yudi : rob kalian ?? kok pada main tinggal sih ??
"robi : udah di BK yud kamu telat sih...
"yudi : ya udah aku nyusul yaaa...
"robi : iya kita kita tunggu kita di dalam ni deket panggung...

sudah itu dia nutup telpon...
setelah beberapa menit si yudi tadi nelpon lagi..

"yudi : rob,, gua dah di BK nih.. loe dmn ?
"robi : iya kamu dmn yud ??
"yudi : aku di Tacktor nih...
"robi : tracktor mana ??????
"yudi : tracktor di luar rob...
"robi : mank ada tracktor di luar ???
"yudi : iya ini aku lagi di tracktor ...
"robi : ahhh kamu becanda aja tadi kita masuk gak da tracktor kok di luar ???
"yudi : dengan ngototnya di bilang dengan keras-keras ada rob astaga ini juga lagi tracktor... masa kamu gak tau tracktor rob ah parahnya kamu...
"robi : ah kamu yang aneh jelas-jelas tadi kita masuk gak lihat tracktor,, iya kan teman( sambil tanya ke temenku yang lain)... emangnya tracktor yang di mana sih kamu???
"yudi : hemmmm....(diam)
"robi : yud dimananya trotoar kamu, bagian dalam atau agak keluar...???
"yudi : hahahah..
"robi : lah kok malah ketawa ??
"yudi : anu rob maksudku bukan tracktor tapi trotoar, aku salah sebut hehheh...
"robi : hahahhahahhah kamu ini ada-ada saja ya sudah tungguin aku disitu ntar ku jemput kamu..
"yudi : iya cepat yaaa...

setelah ketemu kami semua ketawaan salah satu temenku teriak "besok kalau kamu ke BK yud bawa kacamata nenekmu biar kamu bisa bedaan mana tracktor ma mana trotoar... hahha tracktor,tracktor, hahahha serentak semua tertawa sejak itulah nama yudi berubah jadi tracktor hahahh...

tapi lucunyanya lagi pas lagi di jalan pulang dia tuh liatin cewek yang boncengan yang juga dari BK satu pakai jilbab satu gak pakai jilbab... terus tuh dia deket-deket ke motorku rob" cewek yang itu cantik juga yaa manis banget "
"yang mana yud ", ituloh rob yang boncengan berdua", iya yang mana yud kan ada dua tuh", astaga robi itu loh yang pakai mukennah" sentak aku ma teman yang aku bonceng tertawa sekeras-kerasnya hahahhah yudi-yudi itu bukan mukennah tapi jilbab hahhah kamu kira tuh cewek lagi sholat di atas motor kah... hahah memang lucu betul tuh temenku satu... nah sampai di situ aja ya kawan-kawan cerita ku ntar kapan-kapan kalau ada waktu pasti aku postingin cerita yang lebih seru lagi...